8 years ago this morning, my sister came into the bedroom where I was sleeping at my parent's home. She crawled into the twin bed next to mine and asked me if I was "ready". I answered, quite honestly, "No!" I don't think that was the answer she was looking for, and I'm pretty sure my matron of honor was about to go into panic mode!
What I meant, and explained to her as best as I could, was that I wasn't ready to start the day, because I knew how quickly the day would go by and I wanted to enjoy every single minute! I wanted the day to be perfect. I wanted to see all of our friends and family! I wanted pictures! I wanted to dance! I wanted hugs! And I couldn't wait to say "I do!".
The next morning, as my hubby and I drove to the gift opening, on a drizzly, foggy, chilly fall day, (complete opposite of the day before) we were overwhelmed with joy as we thought about our wedding day and how perfect it was. The church was packed, standing room only, with people we loved the most in this life! We smiled for the camera, we danced, we hugged, and we said "I do"! And even now, 8 years later, when I look back at that day, there isn't one thing I would do differently . . .
Well, maybe I would make sure the fan wasn't pointed at the unity candle. And maybe I would have made sure the wine was being distributed, since all of the bottles got opened. I certainly would have said more thank yous at the reception. And I probably didn't need to get my panties in a bunch when some chick I didn't know requested a song about "rednecks" for "the bride".
But that's all minor, right? (Funny what you still remember!)
Here are some of my favorite moments from 8 years ago today:
1. Having our friend come to our house to do all of our hair the morning of the wedding, while we sat around the dining room table drinking coffee in our pajamas!
2. The pictures - there were hundreds. I'm sure most of the groomsmen and ushers were less than impressed, but our wedding album is beautiful! Flower gardens, main street, wheat fields, and the church.
3. My dress - I loved it. I still do! My aunt and cousin were with me when I tried it on and fell in love with it. I think I only tried on 4. (I told the lady if I couldn't buy it off the rack I didn't want to try it on!) Although I still wish I had been able to go dress shopping with my mom and sister, it was an honor to share that experience with my aunt Kim and it makes my dress that much more special to me!
4. The toasts! My sister had us all in tears with hers, and then the wedding party passed the mic. It was so fun!
5. The cake - it was delicious! And beautiful! But definitely delicious! I remember when we ordered it, our friend asked me which layer I wanted on the bottom (chocolate or white). I was more concerned about what flavor would be on top (the one we got to take home and freeze for our first anniversary, only it was sooooo yummy we ate it as soon as we got home, because I didn't want to risk good chocolate cake to freezer burn!)
6. Dancing with my dad, my brother, and my husband!
7. All of the people who helped us and made things for our wedding: beer, rootbeer, norwegian wedding cake, my veil, the programs, the centerpieces, the music ..... Honestly! It was amazing!
8. Friends and family - they came from everywhere! Chicago, Denver, Omaha, Phoenix, Couer d'Alene, Oklahoma, and all over Minnesota, South Dakota.
9. Walking up the aisle with my dad.
10. Walking out of the church as husband and wife!
It was the best day ever!
It's fun to remember!
It's a wonderful day to celebrate!
I'd do it again a hundred times over!
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| Wedding Party |
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| my girls! |
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| my mom |
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| Loved the wheat in the bouquets. Beautiful! |
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| my hubby (so handsome!) |
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| my sister and brother |
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| "Feels Like Home" - our first dance |
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| my daddy - a little blurry, but check out those smiles! |
Happy Anniversary, to my wonderful husband! I still say "I do!"